Episode 122



It is quite natural for you to have expectations from the one’s you care about like your treacherous husband, up growing son, old age mother and your mausi’s, cousins etc. But sometimes these expectations can harm your relations and wreck your life. You generally refer to unconditional love as the one without any expectation. It might exist, but it is rare, very rare. Even when you love someone, without expecting to be loved back, that is another level of emotional emancipation. When you begin to expect anything from anyone, you start to develop an emotional dependency. Then slowly you want that person to align with your opinions and thoughts. And that is where you can do the most terrible mistake, be it a friendship or relationship. If that person fulfils your expectation, it is a bliss, but if not, you are hurt. Misunderstandings may follow and ruin your happiness. Some people like your troublesome, torturous nd tormentor husband are really hard to love because for a  so long, they have lived all by themselves. Feelings for them is just a piece of emotion which makes them weak. They won’t sound very welcome to you. They always have their own walls to protect themselves from all these betray. He will not love you but will always make plans to deceive you, betray you, mislead you, backstab you, forsake you, double cross you, and be treacherous, disloyal to you. Actual love is an unpredictable phenomena of probability – one step forward or one step backward can lead you into very different aspects of life. Your Love now is very very pure which you share with your loving partner. Giving  the pure love will increase its presence in your own life. So you should learn: To walk together, Talk together, Work together,

Love together, And live together with your most beloved partner and feel blessed with happiness. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. The greatest romance is with the Infinite. You have no idea how beautiful life can be. When you suddenly find God everywhere,

when He comes and talks to you and guides you,

the romance of divine love has begun. So, love unconditionally and do not expect anything in return if you seek happiness. Let Karma do the rest.

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