EPISODE 98

 EPISODE 98.

Sri Krishna speaks to those who take time to listen, and He listen to those who take time to pray. May your present day become a significant stepping stone for your future triumphs and lead you to the pinnacle of prosperity! One of the best ways to make yourself happy in the present moments is to recall happy times from the past when you were a kid and staying with your father and mother, your school days at Asansol, your college days at Vanasthali, your college days at Bangalore and pre marriage days and the present moments today. Forget about the past fifteen years of your torturous, troublesome life with your treacherous and tormented husband. Photos are a great memory-prompt, and because we tend to take photos of happy, joyful moments, occasions, they weight our memories to the good. Destiny depends on the strength of your desire. As you cried while you were living a troublesome life your troubles grew more than double and now in these present moments while you are laughing, enjoying with your mother, son and partner at trouble it has disappeared from your beautiful life like a bubble.

Just because something is flawed doesn’t mean it is useless. It’s fine to aim for perfection but it’s foolish to reject every thing else. Some compromises sometimes are worth making with the persons you hate (knowing fully well) they can be a boon in future. Some times with some shortcomings it’s best to find a way to live with, at least for a while. ( in your case a year till your son completes tenth standard). When the perfect option for you is not available, see if you can make another option work. A rocky, slippery path with your torturous, treacherous husband for a year is better than no path at all. No person in your life is going to or can be perfect all the time, but that doesn’t mean you must alienate yourself from everyone. A momentary lapse with your alcoholic and useless husband is no reason to punish anyone, including yourself, for all time. A little forgiveness and understanding for the time (say one year with your useless husband) can go a long way for everyone (your mother and your son involved). Now live your present moments with the highest of standards, but don’t let those standards prevent you from living. Seek excellence even perfection, but be careful not to throw out common sense in the process. When anger arises when you fight with your husband, you can let it go, and create more room for happiness and joy. You have the right to be angry and you also have the right to free yourself from anger. When someone like your husband or son or some situation angers you, step back sometimes and consider your options. Choose the best option that will bring the most positive value in your beautiful life for the long run. Anger can quickly clarify your priorities, raise your energy level and get you going. But anger won’t sustain your efforts. When you’ve been hurt by your husband or someone it’s natural to be angry. But don’t perpetuate the pain by hanging yourself on to the anger. Let your anger go or vanish & kindly transform its energy into positive determination. Direct your efforts towards building and improving your health, kindness and happiness not towards destruction and vengeance. Sometimes God will close the doors because it’s time He think you will move forward. He also knows that you will not move unless your circumstances forces you. Trust the transition God’s got you. May every present moments of this day of your life be filled with blessings of good health, strength, happiness, contentment, friendship, kindness, compassion and love. May Sri Krishna and Maa Durga bless you, your son, your mom  and keep you safe, as he walks with you. Race cannot be won by accelerating in top gear, but it can be won by changing the gear in right time. Unfortunately, sometimes, negativity becomes habitual for many of us including you. However, it's never too late to turn our lives around, to laugh, be happy and joyful instead of complaining. Timely decisions taken by you now in present day life can help you to win the race of life in present moments and will make a way for you to achieve your Excellent Brilliant and Bright Future. Winning your future goal of becoming the successful entrepreneur is not the toughest victory. But, winning your patience to achieve that goal is the most toughest one. For anything worth having one must pay the price; and the price is always hardwork, patience, love, self-sacrifice.  No paper currency, no promises to pay, but the gold of real service. Your actions may not always bring you happiness, but there will be no happiness without action. Change your mind to see the good in every moment, thing. Positivity is a choice. The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts. Every morning, the dews on the leaves tell you a story – a story to start afresh. Countless such stories are told by nature every morning; all you have to listen to them. One of the reasons it’s so easy to slip into habitually criticizing others is that it makes us feel good but in long run it will steal your everything. When you point out to yourself that someone else is dumb, you’re also implying that you’re smart. And that feels good. When you criticize someone else for being naive, what you’re really doing is telling yourself that you’re sophisticated. And that feel’s good. When you silently chuckle to yourself about how terrible someone’s fashion sense is, you’re telling yourself how refined your own taste is. And that feels good. Each day has lots of successes in it just waiting to be grabbed. So don’t waste any time in bed doing nothing. Get up and go out there and grab your success before it gets dark again. Discipline and concentration are like the embankments which control and direct the flood waters of a river into harmless and fruitful channels. You are engaged in sadhana and the inquiry into the Self and, in this great task, these two will be of great help! Be it worship or walking or sitting or eating, everything should be done in a disciplined way. Then your life will If you learn only methods, you’ll be tied to your methods, but if you learn principles you can devise your own methods.