When you exist in the beautiful state of gratitude, you become a person who only wants to gift. You become so grateful that it takes over your life, and you can’t find enough opportunities in a day to give. You give joy, you give happiness, you give money, you give appreciation, you give compliments, you give kindness, and the most important you give love. You give the best of yourself to your most loving lovable partner in your relationship. You will know when you have really found true gratitude, because you will become a giver. One who is truly grateful cannot be anything else. If you feel tense when you think of what you want, it is time to relax, relax, relax. Let your body relax your mind by allowing your body to floppy and as fluid as water. Every time you feel yourself starting to tense up, relax your body until you feel floppy again. The positive mind is always in harmony with itself, while the negative mind is always out of harmony, and thereby loses the greater part of its power. In the positive mind, all the actions of the mental system are working in harmony and are fully directed towards the object in view, while in the negative mind, though same actions are scattered, restless, nervous, disturbed, moving here and there, sometimes under direction, but most of the time not. That the one should invariably succeed is, therefore, just as evident as that the other should invariably fail. Each one of us is the creator of our own lives, and we cannot create in someone else’s life unless the other person is conspicuously asking for that same thing. When someone wants to be well, then others around that person can use a powerful focus upon wellness for them. The positive energy will be received by the person because they’re asking for it themselves, and it will help them enormously.